Your dating profile, run by an agent that knows you
An AI that swipes, chats, and screens matches using your real preferences, not guesswork.
The problem
Dating apps demand constant attention. You spend hours swiping through noise and having the same small-talk conversations that lead nowhere. The emotional drain causes you to delete the app before finding a real connection.
What AI makes possible now
In 2017, outsourcing your Tinder meant paying a human ghostwriter who never really sounded like you. Now, a large language model can be fine-tuned on your actual text history and conversation style. It runs as an agent: it swipes based on visual cues analyzed by a vision model, initiates chats that mirror your tone, and asks the screening questions you care about. You only see the few matches who pass your real criteria, with a full transcript of what your agent said as you.
How it works
- You connect your dating app account and upload a sample of your text conversations or answer a deep style questionnaire.
- You define your absolute dealbreakers and green flags, from life goals to specific interests.
- The agent swipes, opens conversations, and screens matches 24/7, pausing only when it needs your input on a grey area.
- You receive one daily digest with a vetted match, the full chat log, and a one-click option to take over the conversation.
The first thirty days
Ship a simple web app that connects to one dating platform. The core is a fine-tuned chat model that mimics a user from a 500-word writing sample and a list of five screening questions. No swiping automation yet: the MVP handles inbound conversations only.
How it earns
A monthly subscription for the always-on agent. A higher tier adds the visual swiping automation and a weekly call with a human dating coach who reviews your agent's performance.
Why now
Chat models are cheap enough to run thousands of personalized screening conversations simultaneously, and vision models can now reliably interpret profile photos for subtle lifestyle signals.
First customers
Busy professionals in their 30s and 40s who have deleted dating apps out of frustration but still want a partner. They value time more than the monthly cost.
The hard part
The dating platforms will block the integration at the API level. The product must work via a secure browser simulation that looks like normal human behavior, which is a constant cat and mouse game.
Build this with us
Nexibeo can build the fine-tuned conversational agent and the secure infrastructure that keeps your account safe. If you want to turn this into a quiet, premium service for people who hate the game, apply to build it with us.